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confused

Posted by Annie on June 23, 2015 at 11:32pm

I traveled once again to el paso (almost 500 miles one way) this weekend to see my son.
although he was in good spirts I cried all the way home.
tonight he called and said he saw the parole board,im baffled because he wasnt suppose to until sept. he is doing 18 months state jail and 10

tdjc. the parole meeting came without warning and we had no time to prepare,no support letters or plans to show. this is our system im so confused and dont know what to do

PRAYERS

Posted by sheba on June 18, 2015 at 11:14am

Hey ladies sorry I've been missing on here but I'm really not doing well first my two boys get locked up and now on june 7 2015 my dad was murdered and nothing is being done I'm so lost and empty the jail did allow the boys to say goodbye to there papaw Dallas is still in county waiting n Caleb was brought to county from prison for court there papaw passed while Caleb was here in county and that only reason he got to say goodbye I'm an empty depressed wreck mentally n emotionally OK rant over

Thinking of you all.

Posted by Jennifer on June 18, 2015 at 7:57am

While waiting for God to open doors, Praise him in the hallway. Hugsssss

Cody having troubles with his unit manager

Posted by Jennifer on June 17, 2015 at 7:16am

Ladies, My son is having so much trouble with his unit manager. Cody ordered a pair of shoes and a month later he got a letter saying they were out of the shoes he wanted. He tried to order a different pair, but was told, he has to request a refund first through his unit manager. Cody has asked him several times if he would sign the form to get a refund. He told Cody "it is not my job" Cody still has the same shoes they gave him when he got there..after a year later, they are pretty worn. Cody said he is not the only one having troubles with this guy. He simply will NOT do anything and keeps saying "Its not my Job" so much to list that that Cody has requested...simple things and he refuses!! anyone else have that problem? I am so fed up. I have tried to call his unit manager and only got his answering machine, I left a nice message to see how we can get his refund. He has not called me back. Grrrrrrrrrr...

June 15

Posted by regina on June 15, 2015 at 11:57am

I'm so glad I found this site can not talk about this to any one around me

When I was at my worst!

Posted by Christine Kastner on June 2, 2015 at 10:23pm

When I was at my worst, feeling so far away from my son, I read part of a poem that has never left me, literally, it is now tattoo my me! The verse is... I hold your heart, no fate can keep us apart. Our children, no matter what they do or where they are, they are always with us! God bless!

my story...

Posted by Terry on June 2, 2015 at 9:52pm

As i read n read every persons story, I no longer feel like such an outcast.. And honestly im not sure if im on the righr page to share my story. This is my second attempt i think. My daughter has been in prison for 4 years.. I have been dealing with it on my own not seeking help. I didnt want to accept my truth, my life, my guilt, my pain. I didnt want to accept this is my life, my daughter got 15 to life. I never talk about my girl, i akways felt soon i would wake up from this nightmare n we would b normal again.. But it hasnt worked out that way, n through self destruction and feeling sorry fir myself, I am finally ready to accept, n still love my life and my girls life.. she is strong and has a beautiful heart. Mistakes in life took her there. I have to let go of the y's and the why me... As i read i see I am not alone, and our pain is the same.. i hope every mother will not get stuck in guilt, or self destruct like i have been doing... God is good and he does see us, and every once in a while sends us little miracles here n there.. thank u

HERE WE GO AGAIN

Posted by Reeda Sisk on June 2, 2015 at 5:07am

IF ANYONE HAS GONE THREW THEIR SON BEING LOCKED UP GOING TO PRISON SECOND TIME AND COULD SHARE SOME HELP PLEASE LET ME KNOW PRAYING FOR ALL OF US Reeda

will he never learn

Posted by sheba on May 29, 2015 at 9:45am

Guess Dallas going to prison for who knows how long ain't enough he goes and gets two more charges in jail one felony one misdemeanor its not enough hurt and sadness for his kids n rest of family n he does this grrrrrrr also heard from Caleb's girlfriend he wrote her and told her he is ok but. Don't like it in prison in Jackson ga he said he wants go back to the county jail to do his 10-20 yrs I know its not a laughing situation at all but I did get a giggle from it (shame on me)

Prayers for Cody

Posted by Jennifer on May 27, 2015 at 10:59am

Cody is going through a difficult time right now. When he first arrived prison, He felt forced to join a gang. Cody has changed his life so much and is a reborn Christian. He wants nothing more but to walk by faith with Christ. God is so GOOD. But sadly, the gang members are giving him a hard time for withdrawing. It could cost him his life. My spirits are crushed and I cant stop worrying and crying. I pray everyday and I do trust God will protect him, but it is still hard. Cody said " Mom, I will not fear, Jesus sacrificed for us and If I have to, I will sacrifice for him. I want nothing to with the gang and never have" There is a "rule" when you withdraw, first is to get beat in the face. Cody told them, " go ahead, do what you have to do, It will not change my faith with Christ" They did throw a few punches. One of the " Leaders" pulled Cody aside and said I am the only to make that "call" and I wont. I respect your wishes, but that it would be best to pretend to stay in the gang until August at least because that is when one of the other guys will be released. Could I get prayers for Cody? It would be GREATLY appreciated. I am so proud of him but I am very scared for him.

Memorial weekend

Posted by Jennifer on May 23, 2015 at 7:22am

Have a safe Memorial weekend everyone! Cody wanted to me THANK EVERYONE who sent him a Birthday Card. Today is his Birthday and sadly I will not be able to talk to him. The prison he is at does not turn the phones on Saturdays. :-(

WELL YET ANOTHER ONE GETS AWAY WITH IT

Posted by sheba on May 23, 2015 at 1:13am

OK whatvis it with people that are police or celebratys or on TV getting away with touching little girls and just get counciling and case gets closed and no charges filed and files get destroyed it makes me sick yet when girls lie to guys bout there true age such as in my 20 yr old he gets 15 yrs felony state probation and has to register as sex offender for statutory rape even after the girl wrote the judge and state telling them she lied to him bout age yes I know he should of been careful and a child was born from there night of fun at a party and there are a lot of men and boys serving time for this as well my son will be doing time for it as well and time for another crime he was involved in with his brother I'm so confused as to why cops and people on TV shows can get away with this crime and correct me if I'm wrong but to my knowledge there is no statue of limitations on sex crimes right

June birthday

Posted by ella benson on May 22, 2015 at 9:24am

My son's birthday is June 14.

FREDRICK BENSON #1943047

JOHN Middleton UNIT

13055 F.M. 3522

ABILENE, TX 79601

SO NOT RIGHT

Posted by sheba on May 20, 2015 at 7:39pm

IM REALLY OVER COPS GETTING AWAY WITH SHIT KILLING PEOPLE BEATING THEM TO POINT THEY NEED EMERGENCY HELP OR WORSE SUCH AS A FORMER CHIEF OF POLICE IN HABERSHAM CO AND HIS WIFE KEEPING 4 INNOCENT KIDS LOCKED IN A ROOM WITH HARDLY ANY FOOD FOR YEARS NEGLECTING THEM ABUSEING THEM MENTALY EMOTIONALLY SEXUALY AND PHYSICALLY AND WHEN THEY GOT CAUGHT FOR THIS CRUEL SHIT NO SEX CHARGES NO REGISTERING AS SEX OFFENDER NO PRISON NO NO NO TO ALOT OF CHARGES THAT WAS DROPPED AND IN THE END ALL THEY GET IS 25 CONSECUTIVE WEEKENDS IN FUCKING JAIL A SLAP ON THE WRIST N PROBATION THESE KIDS WILL BE SCARED FOR LIFE DUE TO ADULTS WHO WAS SUPPOSSED TO PROTECT THEM LOVE THEM CARE FOR THEM BE ROLE MODELS TEACH THEM THAT ABUSE IS NOT ALLOWED BY LAW OR YOU GET PUNISHED WELL FOR THESE KIDS THEY SEEN ALL THE ABUSE AND THE JUSTICE SYSTEM FAILED THEM WHAT WOULD OF HAPPENED IF THESE ADULTS HAD KILL ONE OR ALL OF THEM PROBALY WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN CHARGED FOR NOTHING JUST LIKE NOW THE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS MESSED UP YOUR LETTING CHIKD ABUSERS N MOLESTERS GET AWAY WITH IT WHY IS IT CAUSE HE USE TO BE A CHIEF OR YOU HAVE THEM ON A PEDESTOOL YES IM RAISING TOTAL HELL ABOUT THIS WHY YOU ASK ILL TELL YOU WHY AFTER ALL THESE PEOPLE DID THEY NOT GOING TO PRISON WONT HAVE ANY RECORD OF ANY OF THIS BUT MY OLDEST TO BOYS DALLAS N Caleb Mitchell ARE INVOLVED IN A ROBBERY USING A DAMN PELLET GUN TO ROB THE STORE IN A PISS ASS TOWN WHERE THE LAW DONT LIKE THERE FAMILY SO THEY SENTENCED THEM TO 20 YRS IN PRISON DO 10 ONE DOES HAVE MENTAL PROBLEMS AND LAW KNOWS THIS BUT THEY DONT CARE ONE BIT CAUSE HOT DAMN THEY GOT THE MITCHELL BROTHERS I FEEL SOMETHING COULD BE DONE SOMEHOW TO GET MY BOYS A LESSER SENTENCE OR PROBATION AND RESTITUTION AND BANNED FROM THE DOLLAR STORES ANY POSITIVE ADVICE OR ANYONE SUPPORT THIS FOR MY BOYS BEING ABUSED BY THE SYSTEM THINK ABOUT IT THE BOYS STEAL MONEY AND GET SCREWED BY THE SYSTEM THESE PEOPLE ABUSE NEGELCT MOLEST N LOCK KID IN ROOM FOR FOUR YEARS THEY GET NOTHING BUT 25 WEEKENDS IN JAIL AND PROBATION MESSED UP AINT IT. JUSTICE FOR THE MITCHELL BROTHER TAKE A STAND AND CHANGE THE SYSTEM

Blue Mountain Greeting Cards

Posted by Julie0fNENGLAND on May 15, 2015 at 8:13am

I have a subscription to BlueMountain greeting cards website. It is only $20 a year. But it also gives permission to add two people to the account so they can use it too.Anybody interested in supercheap pretty greeting cards printable free from the net can inbox me. I will remove this post when I have two email addresses.

Mothers Day

Posted by Julie0fNENGLAND on May 15, 2015 at 8:07am

April 10Dear Son,The Joker. He sits on my bureau for now looking at me. I was delighted to receive him. And even though you may not think that it was much, I'd like to describe what it meant to me to have it from you.Mainly the aura that I could feel from the card was real. I could feel you all over that card. And knowing that the last place that the card was, was in your hand, made it all the more meaningful.The scent was not unlike that of the plastic toys that you used to like me to buy for you. It was soft, like your skin was when you were a baby, and in my hand, it warmed just like your skin would have been.In other words, it signified more to me as my son, than any thing or object you could purchase in a store. Such is the meaning behind the holidays that we are going to celebrate with each other over the years.I love you more than life itself. Stay strong, and stay you.Mom

Transfer for court date

Posted by maureen kennedy on May 14, 2015 at 11:45pm

My son was finally transferred back to court for his arraignment he is in a prison 6 hours away and this court date has been scheduled 5 times since January so his atty and I have waited in court each time and DOC didn't bring him and now they bring him on a day when he isn't even on the docket. so I missed it and his atty had to run over there. So his sentencing was scheduled for mon and then I get a call that it was moved to today At least I was there today. I had been so worried because he hadn't called me now I find out he couldn't because they hadn't given him a PIN number to use the phone which I still had money in the account when he was there in dec he had asked constantly for it and they never gave it to him . On top of that they didn't give him all of his psych meds since he got there. Even though this jail is close to home I hope he is sent back Tom so he can get his meds correctly. This has been an ongoing battle at this jail. But the good news is that his sentences will run concurrently with no added time. Thank God. For small farvors.

My son just called me said he was at canteen when he was going back to his dorm he was threatened by another inmate and he had a knife tucked under his shirt told my son if he didn't give him his stuf

Posted by Lola on May 14, 2015 at 7:43pm

My son just called me said he was at canteen when he was going back to his dorm he was threatened by another inmate and he had a knife tucked under his shirt told my son if he didn't give him his stuff he would stab him. I am so upset cause he said if he told would make it worse. Oh God please help

Just trying to cope and want to say thank you

Posted by Annie on May 12, 2015 at 8:56am

Hello Everyone

I have joined a while back , but I have really never been able to say much, still cant.

I do want to say thank you to everyone here and to everyone who has wrote to my son Traivs ,he is so very greatful

\to have recieved cards letters, he told me this on mothers day,, when I finally made the 914 mile round trip visit to see him. He is doing well and my heart still aches everyday,as yalls do for your own. I am in Abilene Tx and he is in el paso Sanchez unit,if there is anyone else form here please let me know,maybe we could support each other,,I know i am lost without him.

Thank you all for being here and everything you do.

love to you all and may our hearts and mind keep the faith and love.

Annie

My Son is released and back Home

Posted by ROXANN M GORDON on May 11, 2015 at 10:24am

To All the Mothers out there who have sustained me and kept me prayful & hopeful over the past 15 months I just want to say THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!! I feel so blessed and grateful to have my Son home, released 12/22/2014 and that we as parents have welcomed him home with open arms & given him a "clean slate" so to speak. Forgiveness & understanding are tough, but through M.I.S.S. I never gave up hope or stopped loving my child. I pray each day & night for a more peaceful world & that NO Mothers, Fathers, brothers, Sisters, family have to face the legal system & separation from loved ones.

Where There is LIFE There is HOPE ! HOPE SPRINGS ETERNAL!

Feeling Blessed & Sooooo Very Grateful to be with ALL of my children this Mother's Day!

Roxann

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confused

PRAYERS

Thinking of you all.

Cody having troubles with his unit manager

June 15

When I was at my worst!

my story...

HERE WE GO AGAIN

will he never learn

Prayers for Cody

Memorial weekend

WELL YET ANOTHER ONE GETS AWAY WITH IT

June birthday

SO NOT RIGHT

Blue Mountain Greeting Cards

Mothers Day

Transfer for court date

My son just called me said he was at canteen when he was going back to his dorm he was threatened by another inmate and he had a knife tucked under his shirt told my son if he didn't give him his stuf

Just trying to cope and want to say thank you

My Son is released and back Home

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